Wednesday, July 9, 2008

To comfort you newborn

Most babies cry for an average of 2 hours a day in the first 3 months. So while it may be disconcerting, it’s also normal. To comfort your baby, first try to determine the cause of your baby’s discomfort.

Is your baby hungry? Does your baby have gas? Does your baby’s diaper need changing? Is it time for a nap? Is your baby over stimulated by noise, lights, or activity? To help soothe a sleepy or over stimulated baby, hold your baby on your shoulder while gently rocking your baby. Sing or speak softly to your baby—reassure your baby with a calm voice. It can also help to rub your baby’s back as you do so.



Try different positions to find one that’s comfortable for both of you. Something else to consider: your baby doesn’t have much mobility in the first few weeks and may cry for help if he or she is lying uncomfortably in the crib. You can help your baby get comfortable by gently shifting your baby’s position. But for safety, always place your baby on his or her back for sleeping. If gas is the cause of your baby’s discomfort, there are two simple solutions. The first is to hold your baby gently, but securely, over your arm in a face-down position, known as the “gas hold.” The second may be to consider an anti-gas medicine such as Infants’ YLICON® Drops. Infants’ MYLICON® Drops have been trusted by moms for over 30 years and are the #1choice of pediatricians. You also can try "Telon" and rub/massage on his or her tummy. It will do the trick.

Sophie couldn’t sleep well when she was few weeks old. It was really tiring and depressing moment which you find it is very hard to handle your newborn. Remain calm and relax will make you much more understand how you could deal with it. Would you do it by your own self or would it be easier with your parents around to guide you? I must say, yes it is but praise to God, I handled it appropriately without my parents’ supervision.

After 1 month, Sophie already had managed to cope with her daily routine and sleep time. I could sleep better and got much more time to relax. I did not do any housework or cleaning my house with all the dusty and messy, because I believed relaxing would heal your pain off.

After the first few days I was feeling a little more confident about holding, bathing, feeding, and changing my newborn. With plenty of practice with these things over the next few weeks and months, and this new routine will become more familiar to me. I always asked my hubby to try to do it but he preferred to do it after Sophie physically ok.

It was challenging to deal with your fragile newborn but I believe you have to read lots of guide book to guide you and experience will make you cope with it regardless of how’s the pain you bear during labor. hehehe...

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

How to Hold Your Newborn
Your newborn may feel fragile and delicate to you, but don’t be afraid to touch, handle, or
hold your new baby! In fact, studies show that babies that are held more than 2 hours per
day thrive better and cry less.
Because your newborn’s neck muscles are not yet developed, you will need to support your
newborn’s head whenever you pick him or her up. You should also support your newborn’s
head against your shoulder or with your opposite hand, while carrying him or her.
Some parents find that a sling or baby carrier provides an extra sense of security when
carrying their newborn babies. And your baby will love it too! ** from Johnsonbaby


I could still remember the 1st time I hold my baby. Sophie was just fine when her mama naturally could hold her without fear.Not the moment when we first got our baby nephew, Aiman. Everything seems so fragile. My sis was right. You can't tell the feeling. When you are ready, everything seems perfectly natural to be a mom. Yes... now I know...

Monday, March 24, 2008

Sophie - 10 Feb 2008


10 Feb - while kept awaiting for my contractions begun, we watched some movies to overcome my nervousness. Gynae came, he said, still.. no progression.

Dr. Idris decided to get me induced and break my amnion sac. After about an hour, the staff nurse came and checked my dilation. progressed about 1 cm. Kept waiting till contractions are coming at relatively regular intervals but the contractions tend to be mild. When the dilation about 6 cm, the contraction became longer and stronger. At 1st, i still can tahan, and after 1 hour, i've decided to get the sedative injection. Staff nurse was asking me if i wanted either the injection or epidural. I think she might be thinking that a woman like me couldn't stand the pain. I rather not... i think i wont need it since my mom n my sisters could do it. So do i...

About 2.30pm, my contraction getting worst. till 3.00 pm, i knw she is ready... whilst i was in pain, my hubby turn on the Quran on my Macbook and SubhanAllah... my labour wasn't that bad at all. My labour went well, not as i imagined before. No one could tell you what were the experiences you will face during labour. But, I would say it's amazing. It won't bother me as i am jz worried about my baby. With my hubby by my side, everything seems easy to me.
4.15 pm - Natural birth by forceps... Sophie Camilla Arianna... welcome to the world honey..

Saturday, February 9, 2008

Tick! Tick!

I am in Labour Ward, Pantai Med Ctr, Bangsar. We are still waiting for our little ones. Gynae said i have only few cm dilated, yet not enuf with the contractions happened. 

Dear my little ones,
Mama and papa will be waiting for you... when you are ready, my precious princess. 

Sunday, December 9, 2007

FINAL TRIMESTER ;)

For whatever reason, i jz wanna say sorry to my little one for not updating any of her journey till now. Now, i am already 7 months and 1 weeks. We have an appointment tomorrow. Lots of thing happened while my 2nd trimester. We had this so called short maternity and parenting class. Gorgeous Mum by CSI (eventho we aren't interested with cord blood banking but the event was quite worthy). Yup! if you ask me, we are not interested with this cord blood banking. One of the reason is they are still in research and need to improvise. My gynae also not recommended the plan. Well, i'm quite sure there is a reason why he also not recommend it. Plus, all the companies involved with this cord blood banking research is not established by any hospital (if i'm not mistaken).

During this Gorgeous Mum, we also learnt about yoga during pregnancy and after birth. It was fun! Then, we had this talk - Sex during pregnancy and that was the time my hubby so excited and focused on the subject... hehehe...

My morning sickness was tolerant and become lesser till my 7 month pregnancy. I feel more relax. But, day by day, she/he become more active. Sumtime i dun even know what she's has done in my belly. I could feel it an could touch it. When there was the time she/he kicked at the down of my belly, i was so desperately had to go to the toilet no matter what. Well, i think most of the time she's doing acrobatic or summersault... hahahaha... Good for you dear...

O ya! We already bought some of the stuffs for our baby. Will tell ya later k! Daaa...

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Baby... I really am sorry..

I'm sorry
I guess I never loved you quite as well as the way you loved me
I guess I'll never really be able to tell you how sorry
I am

And I don't know what it is about you
I just know it's not what it was
I don't know why red fades before blue it just does
and I don't know what it is about me
that I just can't keep still
I keep thinking someday
I will make this all up to you
and maybe someday I will

I guess I never loved you quite as well
as the way you loved me
I guess I'll never really be able to tell you
how sorry
I am
sorry I am
sorry I am
sorry I am

*Ani Difranco*

My little ones is 22 weeks now. I know he/she can senses me now, more sensitive and will hears me now. I hope my little ones will understand how exactly i feel, not having much time for her talk to her as much as before was really hurting me... Sorry my dear, i never meant for that to happen. I really am. Promise will spend more time with you after this. InsyaAllah.

*u know how much i love you*

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Mama and Baby Genius!

Lately, I’ve been so busy with my project (so not me!) where I think I’ve got headache everyday. The seismic data isn’t obvious as I thot, and it is quite tough as my previous project. Moreover, we’ve been introduce to the new software called it Geoprobe, so, it is hard to interpret when u are still learning the software. I know some people in Development already had used this since forever, hik!, but not us in Exploration. So, kesimpulannya, memang terkapai-kapai la nk buat kejer tu.. Honestly, these two weeks has been really tough for me.

Just now, I was struggling with that project, when I did not know which horizon I had to pick up, intentionally for the correlation. The correlated horizon seems not right to me, then, I’ve made a reference with Ieja, my colleague. We tried to figure it out how to do the polygon correlation as in Seiswork before. Yup, that time I was so sure that I am better do it n Seiswork rather than in this software even it is new with advance technology. Ieja told me she forgot how to do it and Zul didn’t even know that thing is exist. I’ve been trying lots of thing (try and error la ni!). Suddenly it came out of nowhere.. I had the idea to do it and TAAARAAA!!! The polygon correlation has appeared!! I was surprised… aper lagi.. dengan bangganya I told Zul and Ieja that I knw how to do it. They came to my workstation and WALLLAAA!!! Dengan hidung kembang I was singing.. “my baby is a genius.. my baby is a genius”… they were jz laughing at me.. and I’ve said to Wongey who is sit next to me, “See I told ya! My baby will be a brilliant and successful geoscientist.. hehehe”…


My baby is fine. Alhamdulillah… last week, we’ve been to PMC for the 3rd prenatal visit. I’ve told my gynae about the problem I had lately where I was experiencing this sort of period pain at my left side of my womb. My hubby and I were worried about the baby actually… Dr. Idris asked me whether I have constipation or not. Yup… I’ve been terribly constipated in the last few weeks. So, that was the reason. He asked me to eat more fiber foods, fruits and vegetables… Then, one thing I was waiting for, looked at at our baby on the screen. Baby wasn’t moving as before as last time we checked. Maybe baby was sleeping… we could see our baby’s nose, eyes and fingers and toes have developed. Our baby is beautiful…

My pregnant belly is not yet showing but lots of my cloths couldn’t fit any longer. The tightness is around waist and bust. My mom already bought me one pregnancy cloth when she’s been to Jakarta. It’s lovely. I bought one too in Modernmum, together with shoes and pants. Jz have to wait for the right time to wear it. Now, its too early ja!!